If you treat an individual as he is, he will remain as he is. But if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he will become what he ought and could be. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
That saying is, in a nutshell, what this page, and really, this site, is all about. Each of us perceives limits to our own life. Others perceive us with limits, not necessarily the same as the ones we believe ourselves to have. BUT, neither view is absolute and each is only a perception - not a reality. On the HealingWords page, there are many suggestions for ideas which, if planted in our heads, would lead us to experience phenomenal growth in all areas of our lives. This page builds on that by exposing the exponential growth possible by taking those ideas and automating our exposure to them. The world around us is pushing ideas at us all day and night long in an attempt to change how we think and how we perceive ourselves. All forms of media attack us in this way - and we use the word "attack" because they are not trying to make us feel better about ourselves. Instead, they try to make us feel inadequate so that we will turn to them to improve our lives (with their products and services).
solutions allowing you to be in control of your own mind.
I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.
Experience is not what happens to you; it's what you do with what happens to you.
- Aldous Huxley
We suggest that you choose to stop their attack by increasing your own resistance to it. If their attack involves showing you a delicious chocolate cake and shows you that by eating that cake you will have a loving family (like the one eating it in the advertisement) and you will feel peace and satisfaction, then your resistance must be just as strong and counteract all those points of attack. You are able to stop this attack by preparing - by having firmly entrenched in your subconscious the ideas of how eating the cake makes you feel bloated, leads to weight gain so that your clothes don't fit as well, makes your children hyperactive, and with all the visuals that accompany these points, that attack can be fruitless.
You can build up your strength for an attack on any front:
How to stop bad dreams and nightmares CLICK HERE!
Meditation CLICK HERE!
Crystal Healing CLICK HERE!
Self-Healing Expressions. Holistic self-help, self-paced e-mail courses CLICK HERE!
Learn Reiki CLICK HERE!
Dr Wayne Dyer's 10 secrets CLICK HERE!
Fresh Wisdom - Breakthru to Enlightenment CLICK HERE!
Brain Music Power (meditation, relaxation, stress reduction) CLICK HERE!
Understanding Your Psychic Ability. A simple straightforward way to find your inner-self and how to develop and use your under-developed sixth sense. CLICK HERE!
The Complete Beginner's Guide To Tarot. How to use Tarot cards to connect to your higher self and receive information and guidance from the cards. CLICK HERE!
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)
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We cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are.
- Max Depree
Remember that what you believe will depend very much on what you are.
- Noah Porter
Live out of your imagination, not your history.
- Stephen Covey
Diamonds are nothing more than chunks of coal that stuck to their jobs.
- Malcolm Forbes
Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality.
- Erich Fromm
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.
- Mark Twain
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain.
- Maya Angelou
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
- Oliver Wendell Holmes
As memory may be a paradise from which we cannot be driven, it may also be a hell from which we cannot escape.
- John Lancaster Spalding
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.
- Winston Churchill
I am always doing that which I can not do, in order that I may learn how to do it.
- Pablo Picasso